The Essence Of Magic – The Magic of Words “Words create a spell so choose them well

This phrase I channelled from my Spirit Guides whilst I meditated many years ago.

 It often rings within my mind when I am with my clients. Clients come to a Psychic Reader with either :questions, curiosity or feeling a lack of enthusiasm (some may term as lost). I have had students that are blind, disabled and have had aphantasia. For those that do not know aphantasia is “the inability to form mental images of objects and persons whom are not present” (source Oxford dictionary).

Referring back to the quote “words create a spell so choose them well!” you will be aware that words are formulated within the mind/brain before they become expressed. Therefore our responsibility of the words we “choose well” begins with out mindset. Each unique experience of life and the universe stems from our mind. 

Let me simplify terms not to loose you, what you think becomes some form of manifestation in your world. Sometimes that manifestation  is obvious and other times purely energetic. I like to utilise the acronym H.O.P.E = hold. only, positive, expectations. In times of uncertainty or concern anxiety and stress does not help us at all! The human body has extreme reaction to the cortisol released at these times and  it can make everything seam and feel worse in some occasions leading to panic attacks. As well as using the acronym as mentioned you can steady the heartbeat and breath by any of the  following: meditation, hyper focus on something, being creative or physical exercise. Taking the fore mentioned actions when feeling under pressure and stressed will make you able to make better decisions, overcome stress and maintain emotional composure.  All magical transformation begins with intent from you, hence I say “maintain emotional composure” I am not suggesting you withhold emotions, but at times of duress you can take it out your feeling on friends, family and work colleagues. 

The words within your mind, imagination and day dreams are important to pay attention to; and wherever possible keep positive with no self deprivation. If you have unkind thoughts about yourself you may well be regularly seeing reflective numbers e.g. 12:21 13:31 14:41 22:22 24:24 (there are too many to list here). If you are seeing reflected or mirrored numbers regularly it is a reminder, that what you are holding within your mind effects your external experience of life. The corporate world and the spiritual world never used to entwine but in the last decade people such as Bill Gates & Jeff Weiner (source google) have embraced the idea that your wealth is your health and the health begins within the mind and meditation.

You will be aware that words form within the mind/brain before you express them as speech, sign or written words. You may have also heard of something called “The Butterfly Effect”. The philosophy being that even the tiniest actions affect the whole universe and those within it. Everything we say creates a ripple effect into the universe, therefore affect all of us. Of course some words are more powerful than others but each has an energy within in. 

Constructive criticism and penalisation has a place in our world, but it is far better to offer encouragement, self development and healing/therapy. 

I have so many examples to share of this, I will share just one. When I was a teenager I used to babysit 2 young boys. At the time I thought I was just being nice and friendly, we would talk about a wide variety of interests and hobbies and make home-made fudge. A couple of decades later I went to see a very famous singer perform at the Cheese & Grain, and there was one of the boy's I had baby-sat in playing as the support act. After his impressive set he came up to me and said  

“thank-you” for being the person who showed me to be my unique authentic self and follow my passion” This blew me away as all I did was be “nice”. Never forget the patience the patience, understanding and kindness you show today will ripple out for many years to come. 

In my profession being a psychic and a medium, words and how I communicate them is essential to my work. I teach students a wide variety of reading energy all with using consciously considered communication. I share my wisdom with the ethics of  “Words can heal or words can harm”. Again a reminder to choose wisely. 

Expressing words externally to others is a great responsibility, consider the teacher at school that saw your weaknesses and instead of focusing on that, they encouraged your strengths. How that person has been impactful in your life. 

Historically influencers were not people smiling and selling things on social media, they were philosophers, inventors, designers and artists. You do not need to be famous, rich or publicised to be a REAL influencer of positive mental attitude, all you need to do is meet people.

Here are 3 exercises that you can use to maintain your positive mental attitude :

1. Whichever person/word makes you angry/upset associate it with a colour. Whenever that word triggers you allow your mind/imagination to flood with that colour. Your mind will learn that colour is more powerful than the feelings.

2. When you are emotionally triggered by a word, rather than internally reacting distract yourself. Go to the nearest water and wash your hands. The sensation of the water and the grounding effect will calm your mind and your bodies reaction.

3. Walk out of the room and into another room take 4 long slow, deep breaths and walk back to the original room.

 In conclusion there is many ways you can improve your experience of this life and also the legacy your leave for others. Some are able to leave a grand gesture to charity, some are able to leave wisdom within a book. Let your legacy be kind words of encouragement, support & guidance. 

“Words create a spell choose them well!”